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   Hey Andrew,

   Just wanted to tell you that I just adore you. You are so down to Earth and freakin funny. As for my rift with a friend it happened about 10 years ago. Katie and I had been best friends in middle and high school, once we graduated things changed. I got a boyfriend and she couldnt handle not having me all to herself, in a platonic way. We just sorta grew apart and we finally called off the friendship. It was one of the hardest times in my life, but we both moved on. 10 years down the road I still thought about her and missed her friendship. We finally got back in to contact with one another a few weeks ago and actually hung out. It was wonderful. It was like neither of us had changed. We still had our inside jokes and laughed like there was no tomorrow. Im sad that we missed out on 10 years of life together, but I think it worked out for the best. We were way too dependent on one another 10 years ago. Ive really missed having her around. So I understand what you were going through in your blog. Glad it all worked out with your friend. Have a great day. Keep up the good work!!!

   Comment by Kimberley — May 7, 2008 #
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   I’m glad you and your friend resolved things. A few years back one of my best friends and I had a huge argument about his girlfriend…or the girl he thought was his girlfriend. I never butted in on their so called relationship, but I never agreed with it either. She was…well, let’s just say she was very well known by many many guys. She broke his heart many times and would come running to me and my husband for some comfort, but that wouldn’t last and would end up running back to her like a sad puppy. One day I just got fed up and yelled at him and told him that we were tired of him using us, and told him the many truths we all knew about her. He yelled back and argued nonsense. I, in a way, gave him an ultimatum…it’s either her or our friendship…well, he chose her. She ended up breaking his heart plenty of times after that. He soon realized that my husband and I were right and gave up on trying to change her into a “good girl”. He came over one day a few months ago in tears…begging for me to forgive him, and that he missed my friendship and the advise I would give him. He and my husband were ok, but it just wasn’t the same between him and I, so he felt like the only mending he needed to do was with me. I was always there….I never left, so of course I forgave him with open arms. He realized that we were his true friends all along, and really never left his side. He sees me like the big sis he never had and things are back to the way they used to be…maybe even better. It’s so nice to have your old friends back. True friends will always stick together.

   Comment by Annette — May 7, 2008 #
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   haven’t mended mine yet.. I don’t think she is open to it. She hasn’t changed and the situation is worse like I knew it would be. But still lover her to pieces (as a friend not girlfriend)

   Comment by carol — May 7, 2008 #
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   Hi Andrew! I am frustrated because I cannot watch the webcast. I thought you would be the best person to ask. I have a Macbook with OSX, but it seems to need an application download to run it. Do you what I may need and where to get it?

   Thank You,

   Candace

   Comment by Candace — May 7, 2008 #
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   I am glad you guys resolved your issues. My bff and I used to argue all the time. I am way stubborn, but if he wouldn’t have given me all those chances to say I am sorry for not listening to his advice I wouldn’t have a bff.

   Comment by Dev(Bobbie) — May 8, 2008 #

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